HOW I TOOK MY POWER BACK

There was a time in my life when I allowed people to walk all over me.


I allowed them to take what they wanted from me and give me nothing in return.


Why? Because I didn't feel I was worthy of anything more.


I allowed people to disrespect me because I disrespected myself.

I allowed people to disrespect me because I disrespected myself.

I was in a long term relationship where I gave everything and got nothing in return, this also happened with career and other opportunities.

I would run around trying to please everyone and make them feel happy, while completely ignoring my own basic needs of love, support and understanding.


I was eventually backed between a rock and a hard place, I had no where to go but to get out.


I chose to leave my long term relationship as it was toxic AF.

I chose to leave my long term relationship as it was toxic AF.

When I did leave that person, they could finally could see what I really did for them, give selflessly to them all the time.


After around a year of being single I met a man who changed my life, he loves me for simply being me.

I chose to leave my long term relationship as it was toxic AF.

We're both mentally healthy people so our relationship started from day one with equal give and take, raising each other up and nourishing one another.


Pushing each other in the most positive way to be the best version of ourselves.


You see that's the key, we give each other the openness to be completely ourselves with space to grow and evolve.


When I received this beautiful energy and understanding, something in me started to change.


I started to see myself how he saw me.

You see that's the key, we give each other the openness to be completely ourselves with space to grow and evolve.

I had only had negative or no feedback from others about my inner beauty and worth, of course my mother was always supportive of me but past romantic partners were not.


So I worked on myself and looked into why I allowed this behavior from people, I saw that I didn't respect myself.

I started to see myself how he saw me.

I allowed others to hurt me and get away with whatever they wanted but only expected perfection from myself.


Which makes no sense as I am a person too, I am just as important as anyone else, if not more important as it's me!


How did I take my power back?

I started to stop the negative self talk, that I wasn't good enough, I had too many flaws, I was unlovable (this was something someone else made me think)

I started to celebrate my achievements as little as they were.

I started to nourish my mind, body and soul with meditation, yoga and healthy food.

I wrote it all down (hence this blog)

Started to do things for me that I enjoy and say no if I didn't want to do something for someone else.

I stopped trying to constantly please others and instead started concentrating on myself and my needs.


I am now the happiest and content that I have ever been within myself, my relationship and my life overall.


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