IF THEY LIKE YOU, YOU'LL KNOW

Dating and starting new relationships can be super confusing, I know because I went back to dating at 34 after a divorce.


During that time I met a new amazing partner that made me realise if they like you, you'll know.

The back and forth of dating can be exhausting.


Wondering if it's going to be serious, if they feel the same way as you, not even knowing whether it's going to be a relationship, not wanting to seem desperate, it's a mind field for sure.

Dating and starting new relationships can be super confusing.

What if I told you that when you meet the right person it will be easy.


Obviously no one is perfect and starting a new relationship will have its ups and downs, as you're two different people coming together, but the right person will always make an effort with you.


Communication will be clear, they will actually tell you that they like you AND back it up with actions.


They will express to you what kind of a relationship they're after.

They will express to you what kind of a relationship they are after.

They will always make time for you when they can, return your texts and call you to check in, never leaving you hanging.


They will show up for you.


When it's the right person you'll know, they will treat you with respect, want to take you out in public and share experiences with you.


They will want you to see their house, meet their family and involve you in their day to day life.

Communication will be clear, they will actually tell you that they like you AND back it up with actions.

If you are dating a person that is acting strange, distant, doesn't write back to your texts, says things but never goes through with them or says things they think you want to hear, only calls you late at night for some fun, or are wishy washy with how they feel about you, just know they aren't the right person for you.


Understand that it's not you that is causing them to act this way, it has nothing to do with you, it's all about them and their own issues.


Timing plays a large role in dating and relationships, as everyone is at a different stage in their life so they may not be ready for a long term commitment.


If this is the case, they are not for you and you need to move on.


Use your intuition with dating, you know when something isn't right, trust your gut, take notice of red flags. (things the do or say that make you think 'that's not right')


If you're unsure about something, talk to them about it, the right person they will listen to your concerns and communicate with you about it.

Use your intuition with dating, you know when something isn't right, trust your gut, take notice of any red flags.

If you're spending your precious energy worrying about a relationship before it's even begin or you're feeling resistance from them, it's not a good start.


The right person will be open and clear with their intentions.


You're a unique being who deserves love and respect, so please don't take sh*t from anyone.


The right person is out there for you, trust this and just enjoy your life.


Working on your own self love and living your own life will attract the right person to you naturally.


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