STOP TRYING TO CONTROL EVERYTHING - How to overcome it

I had to teach myself this...


I used to try to steer my life how I wanted it to be. What I wanted to achieve, at what time and what the outcome would be.

I used to try to steer my life how I wanted it to be.

I tried to control everything that happened to me, I would get so disappointed if things didn't go to my plan.


But that is ridiculous when you think about it because nothing is perfect and outcomes are not always what you expect.


It’s so important to just let go and trust that what is meant for you will happen naturally at the right time, it shouldn’t have to be pushed into place.

The moment I let go of trying to control everything things fell into place naturally.

The moment I let go of trying to control everything things fell into place naturally.


This rings true for so many things in life, to truly let go is to feel free.


So how can you stop trying to control things?

Release any expectation of outcomes, don't imagine how something will be, just go with it.


Don't cry over spilt milk, literally. If something happens unexpectedly, know it's for a reason.


If you don't get the job or opportunity, it wasn't meant to be and another thing will come along for you.

The more you try and control things the least likely they will go the way you expect.


This is no quick fix for this, it takes time and healing to achieve, but know that it can be achieved, I am proof.


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